AUTOPSY of "why people fear of being judged".
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In recent time I have noticed and you all also have noticed that people nowadays fear of being judged. May be this problem would have lied before my birth but the time I have noticed I decided to write an article over it. As I have noticed ,this problem lies mainly in the puberty age group. A child in this age group having semi matured mind and thinking always try to praise everyone unknowingly that anyone can’t make everyone happy at one time. They also think not to hurt anyone, although it is true to not hurt anyone but think this from other perspective too. For example a person (mainly at the age of puberty when he/she finds his interest) wants to do something in the field of literature or in the field of sports or in the field of journalism, but his/her one of the cousin is going to do something related to science and technology and his/her relative (may be his parents, uncle aunt or his friend) flatters him/her to go in the same field as his/her cousin is going. Why? Because of the stereotype thinking? Or his parents or uncle aunt want to show off in front of others? Whatever may be the reason I don’t know but in this case he/she would reluctantly choose the science and technology field leaving behind his/her interest just to make them happy. Now see what happened. This is the other perspective I was talking about earlier.
Now this is not the actual case I wanted to talk about. Some of you reader may assume the above action taken against his/her interest to be true because there is a reason behind it. And the reason is that parents have done have done so many things and it’s our responsibility to pay their debt by doing something good for them which will make them happy .
Now I have a question for you all guys. Is it important to make everyone happy outside your family relation or for a person who haven’t done anything for you? I know most of you would answer, no.Then why people fear of being judged by any other person? I mean I want to say that, assume a girl/boy is a good writer or a good sports person , then why he/she is shy to show his/her skill?On asking about I got an answer that I fear what people would say. When I heard this reply I wanted to say a lot of things like “do they people who judge you had done anything for you?” , “do they people who judge you feed you?” Or “do they people who judge you had come when you were sick when no one was there except your family members?” . I also wanted to know why they care so much about someone who literally had done nothing except of judging. I don’t know why they give a fcuk about them? I don’t know why they want to make them happy?
Untill now you might have got an idea what I am trying to say in this article. It is not important to think good for everyone. It is not important to make everyone happy. It is good to hurt someone few times. It is not important to give a fcuk about such people.Just give yourself a stand against them. Believe me you will not regret.
And after reading this article if you have any doubts or suggestion you can contact me through my mail.This is my first article I hope you all would have liked it. If you liked then must share this article with your friends and family and whoever who try to make everyone happy.
Now this is not the actual case I wanted to talk about. Some of you reader may assume the above action taken against his/her interest to be true because there is a reason behind it. And the reason is that parents have done have done so many things and it’s our responsibility to pay their debt by doing something good for them which will make them happy .
Now I have a question for you all guys. Is it important to make everyone happy outside your family relation or for a person who haven’t done anything for you? I know most of you would answer, no.Then why people fear of being judged by any other person? I mean I want to say that, assume a girl/boy is a good writer or a good sports person , then why he/she is shy to show his/her skill?On asking about I got an answer that I fear what people would say. When I heard this reply I wanted to say a lot of things like “do they people who judge you had done anything for you?” , “do they people who judge you feed you?” Or “do they people who judge you had come when you were sick when no one was there except your family members?” . I also wanted to know why they care so much about someone who literally had done nothing except of judging. I don’t know why they give a fcuk about them? I don’t know why they want to make them happy?
Untill now you might have got an idea what I am trying to say in this article. It is not important to think good for everyone. It is not important to make everyone happy. It is good to hurt someone few times. It is not important to give a fcuk about such people.Just give yourself a stand against them. Believe me you will not regret.
And after reading this article if you have any doubts or suggestion you can contact me through my mail.This is my first article I hope you all would have liked it. If you liked then must share this article with your friends and family and whoever who try to make everyone happy.
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